A Word of Advice for New Students

(Note: This is the original draft of an article I wrote for my high school magazine as an alumnus, after being asked to give some advice to incoming freshmen. I hope it might be helpful advice for any young students reading this now.)

“Everything is meaningless.”  That’s how King Solomon put it in Ecclesiastes 1:1.  “Nothing is sound.” That’s how Switchfoot puts it on their album of the same name.  (Man, that’s kind of a downer note to start this off on.)  I know, but it’s a necessary one.  Don’t worry; it gets better.

Welcome to Pelion High School, home of the mighty Panthers! I hope you’re ready to have four of the best years of your life! My years at Pelion High School were certainly some of the best times of my life. (There’s that nice, cheery intro!) So here you are at the threshold of a bright academic future and you’re ready to go forth and I sound like I’m giving a commencement speech.  Okay, so you’re ready to go to school with your big brother and no longer with your little sister.  But you want to make a name for yourself too.  You want to have a cool group of friends and know where you belong.  Or maybe you just want to get through with a diploma intact!

So now you’re ready for all the dirt, right?  What’re the rumors on all those tough teachers?  (I hear dem English teachers be pretty rough.) Who are the cool people to hang out with?  Where do I sit at lunch?  What’s actually in the stuff they serve you?  What’s the best way to mask some big gas in class?  (I recommend the loud cough method. It’s served me well.)  Which bathroom stalls should I avoid?  How do you open the lockers?  (Got me on that one.)  What’s the best pick-up line to use? (I see we’re taking chemistry together.  It’s meant to be. You’re my density.)  How do I sit through 90 minute classes?  (Be glad you’re not in college yet.)  What’s the best excuse for not doing my homework?  What’s the best way to get out of school for a day?  (You fake a …oh, like I really need to tell you this.)  And most importantly of all:  When are the holidays?

There’re so many things to consider in high school.  And there’s a lot about it to enjoy.  There are lots of great people you can meet and become good friends with.  There are tons of great clubs and sporting teams to be involved with.  And believe it or not, the teachers actually do work their hardest to make their classes fun as well as educational.  And don’t panic now, but apparently you don’t get recess in high school.  (I know- I was quite shocked myself.  This is why you’ve got to make those 27 minutes of lunch last as long as you can.)  But overall the only one who can determine what you’ll get out of high school and what you’ll make of it is you.  So make up your mind now to have a good time and to enjoy it and to be the best you can be in everything.

Take advantage of the school sponsored things you can be a part of.  Get to be a part of the many great clubs at school like the Key Club, Beta Club, Fellowship of Christian Athletes, Future Business Leaders of America, Spanish Club, etc.  And you can always start your own club.  These clubs give you something to be part of with people who share your interests and together you can have great fun together working towards something you believe in.  And of course, it looks great on college applications and resumes!

And don’t forget about school sports.  Be a sport and go out for the team.  If you want to be cool like me, you can run Cross Country and Track and Field and get cut from the basketball team after one day of practice.  Or maybe you’d rather play golf or baseball.  Even if you don’t play a sport, (though again, it is good on college applications and resumes), be sure to go support your school teams at their games.  Whether the Panthers are playing as the reigning champs or the underdogs, be there to cheer them on anyway.  Not only does this give you time to socialize with friends outside of the classroom, it’s also great for taking dates to (not that I have any experience there) and it makes you feel a part of things.  This is your school and you should take pride in it.  

Now I know you’re probably worried about the workload of high school and keeping up with everything, but the best thing to do about that is to take it all in stride.  Don’t get overwhelmed with the work, but manage it sensibly from the start by planning it all out on your calendar.  Find good friends that will help encourage you and that you can work with on school assignments.  And I’ve heard an apple for the teacher never hurts!  (Of course, if it’s getting towards the end of May, you may want to just go in for the boxes of chocolate instead!)

Now, would someone like to summarize for the class what the article is saying?  (The ones sleeping in the back row better wake up or it’ll be four laps around the track after school.)  The main point is to make the most out of the four years (or five as the case may be) of high school (let’s make it four) that you have ahead of you.  Get involved with your school’s sports and clubs and as the Beach Boys sang, “be true to your school”.  And when it comes to choosing friends, choose those who will really like you for yourself, not for what you have or pretend to be.  And here’s a good hint.  Make friends with the weirdos.  Many times you’ll find that the weirdos can turn out to be your truest and best and most loyal friends.  Most of all, be yourself and accept others as they are.  Follow the Golden Rule. (“Silence is golden”?)  Well, that’s one for the classroom, but mainly do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  You avoid so much junk that way.

In the end, when you think about everything happening right now, this is your life.  Are you who you want to be?  Only you can determine what it’s going to be like and what you’re going to make of your life.  And high school is a crucial part of that.  Remember that everything is meaningless; nothing is sound and nothing gold can stay.  So don’t live your life just for now, but keep the long term future in mind.  Take the time to think about what’s most important in your life and decide to live each day keeping your goals intact.  Is a good career the priority?  Is it a good wife and family?  Are you looking to make tons of money? (Don’t go into journalism!)  Where does God figure into things?  Does God figure into your life?  All of these are valid concerns that you’ll structure your life around.  Choose this day who you will serve.  Make the most of every day.  Carpe diem!  And have fun!  And because the Panthers rule and I’m proud to be an American, I have to end with this, if you can imagine a deep, enthusiastic roar at this point.  God bless America and go Panthers!

  Copyright by Nathan Ludwick 3/9/2006